dedicate this to all my teenage friend who is experiencing the same thing with me now, which i call it the "sudden parental PMS" or what is known as the second stage of identity crisis.
Symptom of this include:
1) sudden obsession in trying to control your life. ps: there were once more carefree and let you make your own decision, but now they suddenly try to control your life, by helping u make decision.
2) sudden expectation hike *expectation that is normal, till sudden high expectation like, you must get 3.8 gpa*
3) occasional domestic noise pollution *when they scream
Causes of this:
1) son or daughter going to college or UNI.
2) son or daughter been going out a lot.
3) Parents sudden fear and realization that they might lose you some day. But being their generation, they dont know how to express themselves, which leads them to do all the above. PS: to parents that is reading this, all the above are going to distance you from you child, so try a more creative approach, so you all can be buddies :)
No fear guys and girls, see that enlarge photo! Life is a bitch enjoy her or him, so take it easy, enjoy your bitch, and dont get too frustrated by your parents action, as they did it out of love, even though it might not be the right way. Also, can try to give it sometime, they might tone down, as you all should also try to prove yourself to them. Note to any parent that is reading this, teenager nowadays and during your era is different, I hope you all understand that, and hope that you do not use your parents way on us, as we dont want to be exact replica of you all, we need space to grow.
With love, xoxo
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